Here we are STANDING on a super over-crowded bus, having to bump into each other...and listening to the ramblings of the Santa Monica crazies and drunks....take for example, the young 20 somethings who were discussing the PETA's president supposed dying wish is to be canablized as her final protest to the world.......and with that the young Santa Monican said he would eat her......
Thursday, January 29, 2009
California.part five.the waiting game.
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California.part four.Our goal is met.sort of.
The point of going to Beverly Hills was to eat lunch with the stars.....Once we got to Rodeo Dr. Veida and I were STARVING. You would think that we just hiked from LAX to BevHill, although we felt like we did, we were not in starvation mode, literally, it just felt like it.
So we walked down Rodeo Dr. We saw all the fancy smancy stores, but we did not see all the fancy smancy restaurants.....do people here eat??????
We turn on a side street.....and we literally stop at the first place we smelt food.....
We shared the salad and the pizza....Veida drank water, and me the lemonade.
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Monday, January 26, 2009
And if Veida and Georgie had one.....
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Sunday, January 25, 2009
If Jason and I had a kid....it would look like this....should we have one?
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Saturday, January 24, 2009
California.part three.Rodeo Drive
WE MADE IT TO RODEO DR!!!
So we got off the bus as soon as we saw "Beverly Hills" we should have waited a few blocks...because we walked and walked some more...
But we made it.
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California.part two.mass transit woes
Veida waiting for the shuttle to take us to the bus station.
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California.part one.first class
Veida and I decided to go to Las Vegas for a day trip because on my birthday she had given me a sister trip to New York....however, New York is sooo cold, we thought a bit of the Las Vegas Strip would do us good.
HOWEVER......because we were sitting standby, the flights were all full..so we had to forget Vegas, and we decided that Los Angeles would be fun....so off we went.
This is Veida and me in the shuttle bus from the parking to the airport....
Here we are waiting to see if just maybe we could make it to Vegas....
We learned we couldn't get on the plane to Vegas, but we made it first class to The City of Angels.
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Monday, January 19, 2009
7 Happy Thoughts of My Week
7 Happy Thoughts of My Week
Sunday - Eating dinner with my dad before his surgery
Monday - My dad coming out of surgery successfuly
Tuesday - Seeing how excited to see me again!
Wednesday - mmmmmm Eating Don Pablos
Thursday - Finding Taiko! Happy Joy Joy!
Friday - No babysitting...kids at school all day.....I got to relax
Saturday - Day trip......fun!
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We decided to leave.
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We See Him!
****WARNING**** These images may be disturbing to you if you have never seen anyone post-surgery
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The Waiting Game
We played Yatzee....A lot....oh and checked the millions of messages
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Friday, January 16, 2009
Day before and pre-surgery
We headed off to Houston on Veida's birthday...
Veida and I ditched George at the hotel after dinner, and took off to Target...we wandered through the aisles looking at just about everything.
Finally a nurse helped us along and we found him right before he took off to surgery.
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Final Update
Final Update...
He is still in the hospital, but he is recovering so well....that no news is good news. He went to the restroom and had a bowel movement....thats a good thing.....and other than that....he is just sleepy and tired.
Thank you for all of your prayers and well wishes.
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Thursday, January 15, 2009
Doggy Jail
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Wednesday, January 14, 2009
More updates
Tuesday Morning Update
Baba's nurse says..."The doctors just made their rounds, and say he is still looking great. He had a good night, he says he got a little sleep, but the pain is setting in, and had to have medication for that. He still is in good spirits, and will probably leave ICU this evening. He has drainage that is still going on, that is why he is still in the ICU."
I had told her that I will not bug her so much today, and she said that is ok, I didn't bug her yesterday. ha ha. I will check in on him again around 3ish.
Love you guys....
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Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Evening Update
As of 5:45pm, he is still doing well......eating ice chips and resting.
YAY! The day is done...and tonight he will be getting his own private room....so we will be talking to him personally tonight and tomorrow..
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Noon Update
As of noon.....
The nurse says: "He will not be sedated anymore, and will wake and sleep at his own will. His status is the same which is "Grrrrreat" and he is in good spirits. "
Just like we all know he is.....
YAY!
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Tuesday Morning Update
8:00am Baba update:
The nurse assigned to Baba says that he woke up this morning. They will continue with the seditives today, but will wake him up occassionally. His breathing tubes have been removed, and his doctors came by this morning and says he is doing great, and they like the progress they are seeing.
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Monday Night Update
As of yesterday at 6:00pm:
Baba came out of surgery around 4:30pm. He is going to remain under sedation, so they can monitor all his vital functions. The surgery he had required the moving around of his lungs, and they had to drop his body temp to 88*, so they have to warm him back up as well. Even though he his asleep, he is requiring no help from any support machines, his heart is pumping and lungs are functioning on their own.
The doctors who did the surgery, said that all they are concerned about is finding the opportunity to put him back on his anticoagulants. He needs those medicines quickly to prevent clotting in his new aorta, however, if they give them to him too quickly, it could be bad.....this is not a huge concern, however a prevalent one.
They should be trying to wake him sometime this morning. He will be "with it" for a little bit, but then they will return him to sleep with sedation. This is for healing and pain purposes. I will continue to call the ICU for updates, and then let everyone know of his status.
I personally do not have my cell phone until later today, as I was out of town, and I let someone borrow it (I have metro pcs, it would not have worked in Houston) But by this afternoon, you should be able to get a hold of me by phone....
All well-wishers, please remember to continue praying for my dad. He needs all the healing thoughts and prayers, for a speedy recovery. Do not worry at this time about sending flowers or anything to him, he is in the ICU and they do not allow items like that in there.
I want to thank everyone for all their support.....I love you, and appreciate you!
Layla, and the Mastali Girls.....
And for those of you who were not informed (I did try to tell everyone...sorry if I missed you....) Here is a link to my blog explaining the procedure he had on Monday morning.... http://laylafrances.blogspot.com/2009/01/baba-plastic-man.html
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Monday, January 12, 2009
PRAYERS NEEDED
Please send your healing thoughts and prayers my dad's way today.....he is having his surgery.
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Sunday, January 11, 2009
7 Happy Thoughts of My Week.
Sunday - Jan 4 - Starting my personal Bible study...actually attempting to read it from front to back.
Monday - Jan 5 - Veida and George came to hang out....Jason FINALLY getting paid!!!!! and costco!
Tuesday - Jan 6 - Paying bills I was worried about...Veida and George hanging out again...and Veida helping me get the kids from school...
Wednesday - Jan 7 - Finding out that Jason WAS supposed to get a check on Dec 15th, but it was lost in the mail and returned to the HR department....grrr.....it is being mailed back....cross fingers
Thursday - Jan 8 - Being able to help my friend Whitney by babysitting for her, then getting to visit with her all evening long.
Friday - Jan 9 -Julie helping me clean my house spotless, for Jason's cousins visit....Julie was a lifesaver! I couldn't have done it without her.
Saturday - Jan 10 -Spending all day going out with Jason's cousin Stephanie and her family...blog to come.
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Sister sister sister
Today is Veida's 25th birthday.....it makes me feel OLD.
In general thougths on Veida, I typically still remember her as a young kid I have to look out after....
When in reality, she is a grown woman, who has a career, a husband and a life.
She....has dinner parties, girls trips and friends who have babies.....
I love my sister...and am very proud of her......
Happy Birthday Veida-pita-bread.
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Happy 3rd Anniversry
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Saturday, January 10, 2009
Marfan's.....the basics
What's Marfan syndrome?
The Marfan syndrome is a heritable condition that affects the connective tissue. The primary purpose of connective tissue is to hold the body together and provide a framework for growth and development. In the Marfan syndrome, the connective tissue is defective and does not act as it should. Because connective tissue is found throughout the body, the Marfan syndrome can affect many body systems, including the skeleton, eyes, heart and blood vessels, nervous system, skin and lungs.The Marfan syndrome affects men, women and children, and has been found among people of all races and ethnic backgrounds. It is estimated that at least 1 in 5,000 people in the United States have the disorder.
What are related disorders?
aneurysms and dissections
Mitral Valve Prolapse
Tall stature with long, slim arms and legs with long, spider-like fingers and toes
Who do I know that had/have Marfan's?
Abraham Lincoln
Vincent Schiavelli, actor (Ghost, Man on the Moon, People vs Larry Flynt and many, many more), honorary co-chair of the National Marfan Foundation
Jonathan Larson, Tony Award-winning playwright (Rent)
Flo Hyman, captain, U.S. Olympic Volleyball team, 1984 (won gold medal)
Chris Patton, college basketball player (University of Maryland)
Akhanatan, father of King Tut
Charles de Gaulle, Rachmaninoff, Paganini, Mary Queen of Scots
all information came from the National Marfan Foundation website
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Friday, January 9, 2009
I am....assignment....you should try it.
I took a speach class in college...and one of our first assignments was to complete the following sentances with the first thing that comes to mind, and the "I am" is going to be the same each time...
Here is the blank format,
I am...
I wonder...
I hear...
I see...
I want...
I am...
I pretend...
I feel...
I touch...
I worry...
I cry...
I am...
I understand...
I say...
I dream...
I try...
I hope...
I am...
The following are my answers to this....the first set of answers are what I put on my assignment...the second, is when I took the format, without reviewing what I wrote before, I did it again.. wow....things are different.
July 25,2005
I am patient and naive
I wonder if I were strong enough could things have been different
I hear all the words my heart screams but my mouth refuses to say
I see oppertunities slip by because of my inability to grasp them
I want to be able to have the confidence and know how to pursue my future and conquer my demons
I am patient and naive
I pretend to like people when I really don't
I feel the pains deep inside of where I let people tread
I touch the hearts of the people who abuse mine
I worry that I may turn into the very abuser who plagues me
I cry thinking of what I want to be but can't, and sniffle at the possiblities
I am patient and naive
I understand that not everyone transforms your life into a topsy-turvy carnival
I say that there is no other heronie in my story but me
I dream of the one who has the ability to dry my tears and promotes smiles
I try to be true to myself, this is a daily struggle
I hope this all makes more sense to you than it does me
I am patient and naive
January 9,2009
I am unsure of what I have become
I wonder what the year has in store
I hear that I don't have to be respected
I see that life is what I make of it
I want to know the truth, but am not sure if I can handle it
I am unsure of what I have become
I pretend nothing is wrong all the time
I feel cheated when I do that
I touch my head in my hands, because I am tired
I worry too much
I cry a lot, too much in fact.
I am unsure what I have become
I understand that I am not superwoman
I say things I don't mean sometimes
I dream of a more organized me
I try to do things, but I get distracted and lazy
I hope for good things for my family and me
I am unsure what I have become
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Don't Judge Me.....
I have talked before about loving to vacuum, and having the carpet lines in the carpet. But believe it or not, I have never used a carpet cleaner. Judge me if you want....but we all come to the light at our own pace...
Last night, I spent 5 hours (not straight...I did pause to make chocolate cover strawberries, take a cat nap, chit chat and so on....) cleaning the carpet in Aaron's room, and the living room. I also managed to clean one of the wing-back chairs......today I have to finish the chairs, and couches (before 3pm might I add)......but...the point of this blog.....was to say...I LOVE THE CARPET CLEANING LINES.....oh they are so beautiful.
Did I ever mention that one day this past fall, the missionaries were at my house, and one of them commented on how nice my vacuum lines were.....and so now and forever, Elder Rowley is my favorite missionary ever....I know that is nasty....I already said, don't judge me.
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Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Baba the plastic man....
My Dad (we call him Baba, because in his native language of farsi, it means Father) will be going in for surgery on Monday January 12th. He needs to have his Thoracic aortic aneurysm repaired. This will be an open chest surgery..his second chest surgery, his third repaired anyeurysm since the mid 80's.
I need all the prayers and healing thoughts for him. He is a trooper, but still, it will all help.
Here is some info on what is going on with him....for those of you who know him...
What is a thoracic aortic aneurysm?
The aorta is the largest artery in your body, and it carries blood away from your heart to all the parts of your body. The part of your aorta that runs through your chest is called the thoracic aorta and, when your aorta reaches your abdomen, it is called the abdominal aorta. When a weak area of your thoracic aorta expands or bulges, it is called a thoracic aortic aneurysm (TAA). Approximately 25 percent of aortic aneurysms occur in the chest, and the rest involve the abdominal aorta.
A special type of thoracic aneurysm is called an aortic dissection, and is usually associated with high blood pressure. Sometimes, blood flow forces the layers of the wall of your aorta apart, and it weakens your aorta. This process is called aortic dissection and can cause TAA. The separation can extend from your thoracic aorta through your entire aorta and block arteries to your legs, arms, kidneys, brain, spinal cord, and other areas. Another problem associated with aortic dissection is that over time, the pressure of blood flow can cause the weakened area of your aorta to bulge like a balloon. Much like an over-inflated balloon, an aneurysm can stretch the aorta beyond its safety margin.
Thoracic aortic aneurysms are a serious health risk because they can burst or rupture. A ruptured aneurysm can cause severe internal bleeding, which can rapidly lead to shock or death.
Thoracic aneurysms affect approximately 15,000 people in the United States each year. Some patients may have more than one TAA or may also have an aneurysm in the abdominal aorta. Only about 20 to 30 percent of patients who get to the hospital with a ruptured TAA survive. For this reason, it is crucial to treat large aneurysms early, in order to prevent their rupture.
What causes this?
Certain diseases can weaken the layers of the aortic wall, increasing the risk of aneurysms. These diseases include:
Marfan's syndrome, a connective tissue disorder; (This is what he and Veida have, and why he needs the surgery...I will explain this in a later post)
Syphilis; and
Tuberculosis
How is it fixed?
Open Surgical Repair
During open aneurysm repair, your surgeon makes an incision in your chest and replaces the weakened portion of your aorta with a fabric tube, called a graft. The graft is stronger than the weakened aorta and allows blood to pass through it without causing a bulge. Many patients who have a TAA also have heart disease or involvement of the aorta adjacent to the heart. For extensive or complex thoracic aneurysms, sometimes heart surgery is required at the same time as open aneurysm repair depending upon the particular situation.
Following the surgery, you may stay in the hospital for 5 to 7 days. If your aneurysm is extensive or complex, or if you have other conditions such as heart, lung or kidney disease, you may require 2 to 3 months for a complete recovery.
Info gathered from this website
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Karaoke Part Two
Shayda was here for Thanksgiving...and we sort of snuck her into the karaoke bar we go to....well sneak in wasn't the correct words....lets say we took her there, had a few 7-ups and they never asked for an ID. Here are a few pics (Shayda...I have more pics, however, can't do anything with them right now, I will eventually put them on Myspace or email them to you, just be happy with these right now...)

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Sunday, January 4, 2009
7 Happy Thoughts of My Week.
Sunday - I volunteered to bring stuff to the New Years Eve Service at Jason's church, I did it because no one else was standing when the pastor asked for 10 volunteers...I felt good to help out
Monday - I tried not to show mean or irritated emotions when Hershal spent the night.
Tuesday - Volunteered to watch Ainsley for Alixis during the New Years Eve night, and didn't tell her or even mentioned to be paid extra....
Wednesday - I sold the dress that Veida didn't use for her wedding...and she told me I could keep the money, so this gave me extra cash to buy dinner for New Years Day.
Thursday - I made some dang good cabbage....it made me super happy. And the missionaries came over for dinner and they enjoyed it.
Friday - I took down the Christmas tree and decorations and stuff, and cleaned the living room all nice and neat...
Saturday - Jason and I went around town together, and had a nice day chitchatting and spending quality time goofing off and window shopping for furniture..
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Mix it up....
My dad and step-mom sent me a great Christmas gift...I got a mixer, it isn't a Kitchen Aid, which is still on my wish list.....but it already has come in handy, and I already don't know what I did without it....


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The Dark Knight DVD Review
We rented the movie The Dark Knight...Heath Ledgers last movie. And oh my word....his performance in this movie...he should get any award they have nominated him for....and if I had a choice in who is to accept the winning awards, I agree it should be Michelle Williams, on behalf of their daughter.....thats my two cents on that.
And for the record....I think that this batman movie is one of the best.....
As good as the movie was, and as good as Heath was in it.....I feel in my infinite wisdom that it was this roll that was the breaking point in his life.....he was already having issues with medications and mental exahuastion.....but haivng to put himself in such a role as the joker, caused him mental stress and no sleep to the point he relyed on the drugs to get him down, and when he was down, he stayed down....poor guy is gone.
Here is a snipit from the NY Times that made me realize all of this...
It is a physically and mentally draining role — his Joker is a “psychopathic, mass-murdering, schizophrenic clown with zero empathy” he said cheerfully — and, as often happens when he throws himself into a part, he is not sleeping much.
“Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night,” he said. “I couldn’t stop thinking. My body was exhausted, and my mind was still going.” One night he took an Ambien, which failed to work. He took a second one and fell into a stupor, only to wake up an hour later, his mind still racing.
Even as he spoke, Mr. Ledger was hard-pressed to keep still. He got up and poured more coffee. He stepped outside into the courtyard and smoked a cigarette. He shook his hair out from under its hood, put a rubber band around it, took out the rubber band, put on a hat, took off the hat, put the hood back up. He went outside and had another cigarette. Polite and charming, he nonetheless gave off the sense that the last thing he wanted to do was delve deep into himself for public consumption. “It can be a little distressing to have to overintellectualize yourself,” is how he put it, a little apologetically. "
RIP Heath..
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update.
I have had the chance to use Jason's brother's internet card...so I am putting a few posts up, and scheduling them to post throughout the week, I am not sure when Jason will get paid, so I don't know when I can be back full force......hopefully soon....
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Saturday, January 3, 2009
Happy New Year, and 200th Blog..
This is post 200....what am I supposed to do to celebrate? What is the cool blogging thing to do? A top 200 of my favorite posts???
Well, guess that would be all of them. ha. although some of them are not too good....but reviewing through some of them, I have found that I am a funny person if you can understand my text humor. Since I know what I was talking about, I think i am pretty funny..
This post is supposed to talk about my new years resolution.....
I am trying to get out the habitual resolutions like, lose weight, keep a better house, blah blah....you know the ones everyone sets, but no one attains....
I have decided that my new years resolution is going to be.....(Drum roll please....)
Be more positive.....
(IS that generic?)
I have been very down in the dumps, the kind that if I had insurance I would probably go talk to my doctor to put me back on cymbalta...
but...I have noticed that when I make an effort to do something positive, think something positive, smile a little more than I would really smile...then I am not as negative....and it makes me feel better, and makes Jason like me better, ha ha ha....
So...I am going to steal from other blogs, and attempt to once a week, have a top seven list of what I found positive....it will probably give you a scenario, tell you how I turned it around, and what I could do a bit differently to make it more positive....if I ever am in that situation again....
Is that too much.....?
We will see how long I will keep that up..I am sure that because it is a new years resolution, I will attempt it for a bit, but then stop...because ultimately isn't that what everyone does with resolutions??? ha ha....no really, I will try. and try hard.
Happy New Years.....Here is to another year, that goes by too quickly, but seems like it takes forever to get through..... lets all stop and smell the roses! Happy New Year.
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Top Five and a money rant.
Top five things about the past month that have kept me from blogging...
1) Babysitting, it is funny how time consuming a 5 month old really can be... you should check the little one out at my new blog www.ainsleyandlayla.blogspot.com
2) The kids have been home from school, they might not be my kids.....but they too are time consuming...now it is like I have three children, where I had none.....whew..
3) No internet...we had to turn off our internet for the month due to lack of funds...it is funny how things have to be sacraficed when there is no money...how did we ever live without the internet..?
4) Attempting to keep house and laundry, while juggling kids. enough said.
5) Irritation...I can't find the cord I need to put the pictures from my camera to the computer and then to the blog....so I have all these pictures and no way to use them right now...
So, here is the deal...Jason hasn't had a paycheck since Nov 15th. That is when he got his final half check from the job he quit....he quit the job with the expectation of starting his new job a week later....but because of their slow credit approval process, and background checking...he didn't start until Dec 1st. And then......when he thought he would be paid on Dec 15th, he found out that they turned in hours on the 15th to be paid on the 31st....the 31st has come and gone...and he still hasn't been paid..and he can't get a hold of anyone who can help him with this issue because everyone is on vacation for the holidays...grrr....I am stressed to the max.
Christmas, was sort of sad and depressing for me...because of the lack of money, it was rough.
We had a nice dinner, because my grandma bought the groceries...we have seriously borrowed from anyone and everyone we can....and we owe more money that any one couple should. It makes me stomach hurt thinking about all this....The stress has got to me so bad that in the past two weeks or so, I have lost ten pounds....now the holidays are over, I have gained a little more...but because rent is due and electric and I owe people money, the stress of not knowing why and not knowing when he is getting paid is getting to me again. grr.
Christmas day was sort of weird because Shayda spent the night with Veida and Aaron was at Tracy's house, so we didn't have the excitement in the air when having kids around who are anxious about their gifts....
New Years Eve was spent at Jason's church, I didn't listen to the sermon, I was helping the cooking committe cook the breakfast that was being served afterward....at midnight, I walked into the soundroom where Jason was, kissed him and wished him a happy new year as I almost tripped over a chair....nice.
I have a few pictures from Christmas....but without the cord I need, I won't be able to share....but it wasn't too exciting....so I am not too worried...When Jason gets paid we are going to have another Christmas, so, I will try to remember to document that...
That is about what I am up to...stress stress stress....Jason keeps saying to me "Don't worry the Lord knows our needs and will and has taken care of us". Not to worry is easy in theory, but when it comes to really not worry about it....thats hard.
Tonight, I took $26 spent it at Albertson's who is having a buy one get one free sale....and with my coupons on the bogo I saved more than I spent....I saved $31....That made me happy....
Ohhhh....and you will need to check my food blog soon, because I learned to make the BEST cabbage in the world....yeah....thats right, I win at cabbage making, don't be jealous. The recipe will be on my food blog soon.
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